Well, I've gotten xsetwacom commands to work, and the system recognises the tablet no problem. Basically it sees the tablet just fine, but I can't modify it's settings in any graphical manor, and looked here to see if anyone had figured out a good solution or if there was something I was missing
The Arch Wiki had a few things for using xsetwacom to get some of the basic things I wanted to get working to work, but I think it said all that stuff is temporary, and I'd have to redo it on reboot/replug, which is tedious and annoying. It doesn't help that I use Ultrawide monitors, so getting the resolution and stuff all figured out so it didn't skew my inputs was interesting.
What I want is just a GUI that lets me do the basic stuff like set the focus to a single monitor, set up the quick buttons, and adjust the resolution/pressure stuff all in one nice place.
I've had my XFCE setup for 3ish years now and it works for me, I don't intend to change it for a single program, when everything else I use works just fine