I figured it out.
I did not understand that DOCP is apparently specifc to just a set of paired RAM. Even if you have the EXACT RAM stick x4, this does not mean the DOCP for a dual channel kit is still relevant. I enabled the DOCP then I had to manually increase the voltage from the BIOS specified 1.35v to 1.38v and everything seems stable. Ill run a memtest before when I go to bed.