Is there any compatible WM with xfce instead of xfwm?

i am looking for a stable and customize alternative for xfwm

You can use xfce4 with i3. This disables both xfwm4 and xfdesktop in the process:

Edit - Tried the first method in a vm and it works great. Make sure you disable the i3status bar so it doesn’t conflict with xfce4-panel:

# bar {
#    status_command i3status
# }

If you are looking for a tiling wm then i3 is great.

if you want tiling wm openbox is an excellent choice