Finally and 1:42 am in night I found it
Miracle Miracle Miracle !!!
https://archived.forum.manjaro.org/t/bluetooth-not-working/6977/4
It has started bluetooth driver, now will try for 2 days and let the thread know how it is 
This has solved my not connecting issue
And now finally understood that upstream is bluez-util
Now off to bluez-utils for laggyness after a period of inactive music
Thanks @Fabby 