I also get a popup notification (several actually) asking for permission to connect, with 3 options, Allow, Always Allow, and Cancel. For auto connection Always Allow has to be selected. This is with some cheap bluetooth headphones.
I didn’t get any of these.
Now, clicking the speaker button in the toolbar I get like a menu with 3 options: 1- Speakers 2 - Headphones (with the name of my Airpods), 3 - Internal Microphone.
with an option to select any of them.
Selecting the first one I get sound now in speakers and on headphones (when plugged 3.5 mm) Selecting the second option which is my Airpods I get nothing.
I was thinking the same, as i bought a brand new Bluetooth stick and a Brandnew XBox One X/s wireless gamepad, 3 year’s ago and i was ripping my hair off but only Trust>Pair>Connect was working… otherwise Gandalf will tell your device “You shall not pass!”
I have no idea about the logic behind this, not to pair your device first… and set “trusted” after it… but it is as it is.