Indeed; in and of itself, Wayland isn’t a window manager — it’s a display server. It does however come with its own compositing window manager, called Weston.
I don’t see how you could possibly suggest that something which is and has for decades already been the default display server could be regarded as being shoved down anybody’s throat.
No disrespect intended, but saying that X.Org is being shoved down people’s throats is about just as asinine as saying that the Linux kernel is being shoved down the throats of all GNU/Linux users.
Note: X.Org is the current default implementation of the X11 display server protocol, but it’s not the only available one. Up until about the middle of the 2000s, the default X11 implementation in all FLOSS UNIX-family systems — i.e. GNU/Linux and the BSDs — was actually XFree86, but at some point, XFree86 changed its license — I’m not certain of the details anymore, but as I remember it, the new license heavily restricted the user’s freedom in how they could use the software — and then the project was forked into X.Org, with virtually all GNU/Linux distributions and most of the BSDs switching over to X.Org.
I’m not sure whether XFree86 is still being developed — and personally I’m not interested enough to find out about that, but if your curiosity gets the better of you, then is your friend — but it is a fact that X.Org quickly became a much better X11 implementation than XFree86 had ever been, and that it evolved much faster, adopting new features and new functionality.
No, I have not. First of all, I’m a Plasma user — I hate GNOME — and secondly, I’m not much into experimenting with a production machine.
For yourself and many others, GNU/Linux is a toy that they’re (usually) running alongside of Microsoft Windows. For myself, GNU/Linux has already been my production operating system for well over two decades, and exclusively so — I don’t use or have any need for Microsoft Windows.
I do all of my work in GNU/Linux, and I’m not going to be experimenting or otherwise messing about with a system that I depend upon for everything I do, and that has all of my data on it. (Yes, I do have backups, of course, but that’s not the point.)
Like Brussels sprouts, it’s an acquired taste, and like those very same Brussels sprouts, a taste that I myself appear unable to acquire.
If that is the case — I don’t know, because I don’t have an Nvidia GPU — then it’s probably because of the problems with Wayland on Nvidia. But to the best of my knowledge, Manjaro does offer one the choice to optionally use Wayland — or at least, on non-Nvidia hardware — at login time in both the SDDM and LightDM display managers, while GDM and GNOME already use Wayland by default.
Note: Do bear in mind that only the Plasma edition, the GNOME edition and the XFCE edition are official Manjaro editions. All other GUI choices — e.g. Cinnamon, MATE, et al — are community editions, and their setup may differ from the official editions.
If you want the very latest in everything, then you should switch to the Unstable branch, or alternatively, use Arch instead of Manjaro.
As has been explained already, offering the Latest & Greatest™ is not one of Manjaro’s objectives. Manjaro is cutting-edge, but not bleeding-edge, and there are reasons for that.
It is what it is.