fusermount3: option allow_other only allowed if 'user_allow_other' is set in /etc/fuse.conf
so i run as sudo:
The authenticity of host 'living.lan (192.168.1.2)' can't be established.
ED25519 key fingerprint is SHA256:....
This key is not known by any other names.
Are you sure you want to continue connecting (yes/no/[fingerprint])? yes
ive accepted the key, now ill retry if the mount works
home-bronson-test.automount: Failed with result 'mount-start-limit-hit'.
and the mount
Nov 23 21:33:07 blaptop systemd[1]: Mounting network mount...
Nov 23 21:33:07 blaptop mount[2135]: read: Connection reset by peer
Nov 23 21:33:07 blaptop systemd[1]: home-bronson-test.mount: Mount process exited, code=exited, status=1/FAILURE
Nov 23 21:33:07 blaptop systemd[1]: home-bronson-test.mount: Failed with result 'exit-code'.
Nov 23 21:33:07 blaptop systemd[1]: Failed to mount network mount.
Nov 23 21:33:08 blaptop systemd[1]: home-bronson-test.mount: Start request repeated too quickly.
Nov 23 21:33:08 blaptop systemd[1]: home-bronson-test.mount: Failed with result 'exit-code'.
Nov 23 21:33:08 blaptop systemd[1]: Failed to mount network mount.
Looks like kde is overloading the automount? Is there a way to work around this?
I think the fusermount issue was more related to not running as root, right? Whe i ran as root and accept the ssl stuff it works fine via command line.