After reinstall using Official (extra) I see libeoffice sh file. I unmarked
#export SAL_USE_VCLPLUGIN=gtk3
Rebooted and tried again.
Here is my fix for mine I think though. This popup kept coming up each time on my spreadsheet and when I finally read it it says certain changes won’t be saved. I don’t know how my document got into shared mode (I have no need to share it). After figuring out how to disable it (Tools > Shared Speadsheet) those changes that wouldn’t saved are saving so far. I think that’s it. I’m going to leave this post open bit more to test and make sure.
Thank you everyone for your help and patience with me.