That is the known issue, you are not alone.
There is 2 different solutions:
1. solution:
Switch to some compatible dark theme e.g. Adw-dark
OR
2. solution:
Evolution still supports the environment variable GTK_THEME=<Your theme>
- copy the original desktop app to your own desktop app:
cp /usr/share/applications/org.gnome.Evolution.desktop ~/.local/share/applications/
- Edit
~/.local/share/applications/org.gnome.Evolution.desktop
to change allExec
Exec=bash -c 'GTK_THEME=<Your theme> /usr/bin/evolution'