ok a little update , i still get this:
Warning: elektroid-git: local (2.0.r6.ga62065c-1) is newer than pamac_aur (2.0.beta.r101.ge94eb07-1)
Warning: kvantum-theme-matchama: local (20191118-1) is newer than pamac_aur (r265.8525e05-2)
Resolving dependencies...
Checking inter-conflicts...
Warning: removing 'dbus' from target list because it conflicts with 'dbus-nosystemd'
Error: unresolvable package conflicts detected
Failed to prepare transaction:
conflicting dependencies:
- dbus-nosystemd and dbus-x11 are in conflict
Transaction cancelled.
is it safe to remove dbus-nosystemd or dbus-x11? I m a bit paranoid about that 
I dont know how this got messed up, i was just trying to run an update as usual and didnt install any new packages in between as far as i remember…
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